How many of you ladies have or had fathers, uncles, or brothers address many of the topics I cover with you, including on dangers of insecure men who idolize power, lack integrity, feel inadequate and powerless?
These are men who aren’t submitted to Jesus. What about the fact that some men have unforgiveness and demonic influences inside of them influencing them to hate women? It’s not rare.
Do they, or did they tell you how this negatively affects these men’s treatment of women and often their treatment of children? Did they tell you these types of men often marry women anyways, despite the fact that they seem to hate them?
These things need to be addressed and well-known by women. Awareness can change how women move through life. As I write, many women are becoming much more aware and cautious.
The violence against women and even children from these types of men has not been decreasing. According to numerous news reports, there has in fact been an increase in domestic violence against women/wives from their significant others or from men in general.
A very dangerous man to recognize is the insecure man who is not in Christ and feels powerless!
Some situations with insecure men involve sexual assaults, even against their intimate partners/wives and some end with homicide. The assaults cause delusions of power where the perpetrators otherwise felt powerless.
We all feel insecure about certain things. Yet, I have observed that often, a man who lacks integrity and has become bitter, resentful, envious, feels powerless and has developed a chronic victim mentality takes insecurity and inadequacy to new levels of low.
For many men in general, they crave a sense of significance. They hate rejection. When feeling fearful, bitter and insignificant, coupled with an idolatrous desire for “power” these men can be very dangerous.
It seems some men will do almost anything to maintain or obtain a sense of power and control. For some men, this means becoming abusive and even homicidal towards women.
From what I have observed, some of these men are willing to stoop to the lowest levels and be incredibly cruel in order to obtain a sense of power. They simply are hateful, entitled and want to feel powerful.
Some men become enraged because they have a sense of male entitlement that they should have access to women as they please. One such case is here. A juvenile allegedly brutally attacked a girl who would not give him her phone number. There are other cases like this.
Unfortunately, women and or children are often easy targets of depraved men. Due to being physically weaker, in love or misguided, many women are easy to pick on. Some are targeted randomly. Children are obviously very vulnerable too.
To target the vulnerable to feel powerful is ironically cowardly; not powerful.
Due to having savior complexes and sometimes using their nurturing instincts and tendencies meant for children on dangerous, grown men many women are vulnerable. Sometimes, the women have sex with these men outside of marriage and become hooked on them. They become blinded and bonded to them after sex.
Plenty women who end up dead did not want to press charges against their abusers. Some underestimated just how dangerous their abusers were.
Due to being in close proximity to these men either through dating relationships, marriages, or shared custody of children, women are often targeted as scapegoats by angry, bitter, insecure men.
Ladies, please be proactively aware of these types. I know that many women are increasing in knowledge. Some are spreading the word to warn, inform and encourage other women. I love this. If you end up with the wrong men, you often will be primary targets for their anger, insecurity and overall ungodliness.
You’re going to want to take your time, vet your men and watch them carefully before involving yourself with them. Pray about it and pray some more proactively and continuously. Women who follow Jesus know to pray for wisdom, direction and protection!
Some men lack necessary ambition, maturity, and choose to fail at life. The only ones some men who feel like failures in life seem to hate more than themselves are the women who try to love them. Or, they seem to hate women who are doing better in life and more successful than they are.
Some women seem blissfully unaware of this. Women should be aware that these types of men exist. There are more than a few of them. Some kill their women.
Turn on the news lately. There are news reports consistently of women becoming the tragic victims of their husbands or boyfriends. They are from different walks of life.
Some of the perpetrators and victims are public officials. It’s important for women to be observant and stick to healthy, reasonable standards and boundaries before becoming heavily involved with men.
We cannot guarantee anything for ourselves, but we can trust in God and His sovereignty. We can trust in His direction, protection, and provision.
Certainly, when there are early red flags such as patterns of bad behaviors and inappropriate jealousy from certain men, it is good not to get caught up in the idea that everyone deserves a chance.
Women must be careful not to assume that they should be the ones giving these men chances by dating or even marrying them. Women should move wisely, prayerfully, logically through life.
Yes, plenty men wear masks, get women to marry them or be in long-term relationships with them and have children with them before they show their true colors.
So, it can be tricky. Be observant, aware, set those rightful standards where they should be. Above all, proactive prayer for wisdom & God’s guidance is of great importance. Some women are becoming increasingly dangerous as well and men benefit from being prayerful and careful also! Stay safe, Ladies and Gentlemen.
Helpful Bible Verses:
Teach me to do Your will,
For You are my God;
Your Spirit is good.
Lead me in the land of uprightness.
Psalm 143: 10 NKJV.
See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
Ephesians 5: 15-17 NKJV.
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