…men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.

-John 3:19b-20, NKJV

They will go through all sort of contortions to keep control of the narrative where they are the victim as their marriage implodes. The last thing they want is for people to know the truth about how their own sinful behavior destroyed the bedrock of their marriage.

Some cheaters will seek for ways you learned of their cheating in order to stop that flow of information. For a repentant sinner, it should not matter HOW you know. They should have freely confessed before you caught them, anyways.

Yet, they love the darkness because their deeds are evil.

Some of these sickos get off on the deception of their spouses. They enjoy harming us! It is so, so wicked.

The godly thing is to shine a light on these deeds and refuse to cover up such evil. Someone who is advocating for covering the darkness is not advocating for walking in the light. You can guess which kingdom that person is helping!