“You never do anything to contribute to this marriage,” says Cheater.

“You always have to do EVERYTHING for you,” says Cheater.

You may be forgiven if you think what your Cheater is saying is about you. They are attributing behavior to you, after all. However, that is not the point of their statements.

That makes it easier for them to move on without you. They are–in a sense–trying to bolster themselves by cutting you down. It is real cruel.

A funny thing about this phenomenon is when the cracks start showing in their “absolutes.”

They claim that you do nothing for their marriage in one breath, and then in another, they talk about how they miss your cooking. Funny how impossible that loss would be if you truly did nothing for the relationship.

Then they might accuse you of always depending on them, and in another breath, they are pleading for your help with something. Sadly, your Cheater is probably so far deceived that they don’t see the incongruence with this.

Again, Cheaters are not concerned with speaking truth. They are the ones who are out of touch with reality as they have given their lives over to lies.

Remember that the next time your Cheater speaks in absolutes about you. It is likely just more lies designed to serve the liar’s distorted reality.