10 Signs You Are Married To Your Soulmate - Olubunmi Mabel
Marriage is a beautiful experience, but when you’re married to your soul mate, it’s even more beautiful—it’s a magical, almost unreal experience.
And no, it’s not going to be perfect or be like a movie, nor will it be like Cinderella’s “Happily Ever After,” where life has no downs and only ups.
But it’s going to be amazing, fulfilling, blissful.
You’ll have a sense of settlement in your mind knowing that you married your person and life has gotten a hundred times better than it was.
You’ll feel and see certain signs in the marriage that further crystallize this fact in your mind – that you are married to your soulmate.
What are these signs?
I’ll tell you.
10 Signs You Are Married To Your Soulmate
1. You’re in love
You probably expected a more dramatic or striking sign, and we’ll get into those soon.
But let us start from the basics.
Falling or growing in love may seem so ordinary and basic, but it’s not.
Being in love with your partner goes beyond mere compatibility.
It involves a profound sense of understanding and intimacy that is both comforting and exciting.
When you’re in love with your spouse, you know that your bond goes beyond physical attraction or shared interests; it’s a beautiful blend of emotional resonance and mutual respect.
You feel truly seen and understood by someone who complements you in ways that feel almost magical.
Sometimes, the sign that you’re married to your soul mate may just be the genuine love you feel for each other.
2. Unspoken understanding
When you’re married to your soulmate, there’s a deep, unspoken understanding between you.
This manifests as the ability to sense each other’s moods or needs without needing too much.
For instance, you might know exactly when your partner needs a comforting hug after a tough day, even if they haven’t said a word about the stress they feel.
This intuitive connection extends to everyday moments, where a glance or a small gesture is enough to communicate complex emotions or thoughts.
It’s like a secret language you both share, making interactions smooth and natural.
This deep level of understanding often leads to fewer misunderstandings and conflicts as you’re attuned to each other’s feelings and needs.
Furthermore, this unspoken connection often feels like a natural extension of yourself.
You find that you can complete each other’s sentences or anticipate each other’s reactions, which enhances the sense of being deeply aligned and connected.
The best part?
It gets stronger and more beautiful over time, solidifying the feeling of being soulmates.
3. You’re best friends
Communication is not an issue when you’re married to your soulmate because you’re best of friends.
It just feels effortless and natural.
You don’t have to overthink how to express your thoughts or feelings because you already understand how to communicate with each other.
I can easily talk about sensitive subjects with my husband without fear of misinterpretation because I know that he will listen with empathy and understanding.
You know you’re married to your soulmate when you feel safe sharing your deepest thoughts and vulnerabilities, knowing that your partner will offer support and understanding.
This level of openness enhances intimacy and trust in the relationship.
Even in moments of disagreement, the conversation remains constructive and respectful because you both can work through conflicts calmly and collaboratively.
You also have a shared sense of humor.
You find yourselves laughing at the same jokes, enjoying similar types of humor, and finding joy in each other’s quirks.
You can make light of challenging situations and find joy even in tough times.
You might use humor to defuse a tense moment or cheer each other up when things are not going well.
These are pointers to the deep connection and mutual respect you have for each other, which are key characteristics of a soulmate relationship.
4. You’re partners in progress
This is a golden sign that you’re married to your soulmate.
When you both support each other’s growth, have shared aspirations, and respect each other.
A soulmate relationship is marked by a strong sense of mutual growth and support.
You both encourage each other to pursue your dreams and grow as individuals while also growing together as a couple.
If one of you decides to go back to school or start a new career path, the other provides unwavering support and encouragement.
You may not have the same dreams exactly, but you don’t oppose or frustrate each other’s plans.
You also have common goals and visions in areas that matter especially for your future.
For instance, if both of you dream of starting a family and building a home in a particular location, these shared aspirations deepen your connection.
The mutual support extends to personal development and emotional well-being too.
You celebrate each other’s achievements and help each other through challenges, helping each other thrive.
You’re not only there for the big moments but also to support each other in everyday challenges and growth opportunities.
5. You feel peaceful about the union
There’s a peace that comes with being married to your soulmate that can’t be fully expressed with words.
You experience a deep sense of belonging in the marriage; it’s like you just know that you are exactly where you’re meant to be and that your partner is your perfect counterpart.
This feeling of peace often comes with a sense of home and completeness when you are together.
You just know that this right here is where you belong.
This sense of belonging is reflected in the way you navigate life’s challenges and celebrations.
You feel like you can face anything with your partner by your side and that you’re a team capable of achieving great things together.
You might also feel fully accepted by your partner’s family and friends and see them as an integral part of your life.
This seamless integration further reinforces the sense that you are truly meant to be together.
Even if you aren’t best friends with their friends and family, as long as you feel at home with your partner, your connection is still solid.
6. You’re each other’s safe place
Feeling completely comfortable in each other’s presence is a good sign that you’re both meant to be.
You can spend hours together without speaking and still feel content and fulfilled.
This comfort in silence often arises from a deep sense of peace and understanding between you.
I fondly recall a day when my husband and I planned to go out to have a nice time and later have dinner at a nice restaurant.
We got all dressed up and ready to move, and just when we were about to head out, we looked at each other and decided that we didn’t want to go anymore.
We changed into more comfortable clothes and just stayed back at home, resting in each other’s arms, not saying anything, just enjoying each other’s company.
We microwaved some food, ate, saw a movie, and slept, just finding peace, comfort, and rest in each other’s arms.
While that would seem boring to some, we enjoyed every bit of it because we genuinely love each other’s company.
Silent companionship is a sign that you’re truly at ease with one another.
It’s not about avoiding conversation but rather enjoying the shared space and simply being together.
This ease can manifest in various ways, such as sitting together in silence while reading or enjoying a quiet walk.
The ability to be in each other’s company without needing constant conversation underscores a good level of comfort and intimacy.
It highlights that your bond goes beyond superficial interactions and that you’re deeply connected on a level that doesn’t always require words.
7. You agree
One of my favorite Bible quotes is, “Can two walk together unless they agree?”
That question wasn’t answered in the scriptures, but the answer is No.
A key sign of being married to your soulmate is having shared life philosophy, values, and long-term goals.
Whether it’s about values, family, career aspirations, or lifestyle choices, you find that you and your partner are in sync on what truly matters to you both.
For instance, if both of you value religion, community service, or politics and make them a priority, this reflects a deep alignment in your core values.
Shared goals can be just in day-to-day decisions that extend to your broader life ambitions.
If you both dream of traveling the world or building a family in a specific way, working towards these goals together strengthens your connection.
It makes navigating life’s big decisions smoother and more cohesive.
8. There’s unconditional acceptance
When you’re made to feel secure, comfortable, and confident in who you are, you know you’re with your person.
Being married to your soulmate means you experience unconditional acceptance from your partner.
You’re loved and valued for who you are, flaws and all.
Your little habits that others might find annoying are fully embraced by your partner with love and understanding.
Unconditional acceptance means that your partner doesn’t try to change you but instead supports and appreciates you as you are.
They appreciate your areas of uniqueness and differences and admire who you are.
This acceptance creates a safe and nurturing environment where you can be yourself without fear of judgment or rejection.
Your soulmate acknowledges and respects your history, understands who you are today, and supports your aspirations for the future.
You feel emotionally secure in the relationship, trusting that your partner will be there for you through thick and thin.
9. Spontaneous joy
Frequent and random moments where you experience bursts of joy about your marriage are signs too.
Sometimes, the joy comes randomly, while other times, you both spontaneously create joy and fun together.
A simple day out or an impromptu adventure can turn into a memorable experience because you are both buddies.
This spontaneous joy often comes from a deep sense of comfort and peace.
You can be playful and lighthearted with each other, which adds a layer of enjoyment to your relationship.
This playful attitude helps keep the relationship vibrant and exciting, even in routine moments.
10. Unwavering commitment
Knowing that they really are your soulmate is not only in how you make each other feel.
It’s also seen in your level of commitment to each other.
Being married to your soulmate is marked by unwavering commitment.
You both stand by each other through thick and thin, showing dedication to making the relationship work no matter the circumstances.
Even when you face significant life challenges, you support each other wholeheartedly, demonstrating a commitment that goes beyond superficial.
This level of commitment is evident in how you prioritize each other and your relationship and stay faithful to each other.
You make conscious efforts to grow your friendship, whether it’s through regular communication, shared experiences, or addressing issues together.
This steadfast dedication ensures that your relationship remains strong.
Unwavering commitment means you’re invested in growing together and overcoming obstacles.
This dedication reinforces the feeling that you are truly meant to be together, further strengthening your connection as soulmates.
